-Excerpt from A guy I worked with a few years back came to the states from India in his early twenties.
The bottom line here is not to be ashamed to admit or show that you like a few SWPL-endorsed indulgences for fear you might betray your culture or come off as a “sell out.” Staying true to yourself doesn’t mean rejecting things you genuinely enjoy to keep up appearances.So embrace your SWPL side a little and watch your interactions with white chicks escalate from casual conversations to planned meet ups.I talked about the so-called “assumed alpha advantage” that black men seem to have when gaming any race of female in the article I referenced at this start of this one: While most white men in the Anglo world have to prove their sexual fitness to women (on the “alpha fucks” side of hypergamy) there’s an unspoken sentiment that black men who are at or near the extreme poles of the financial hierarchy (wealthy and poor) are natural alphas.The hip hop culture, ghettos, and black professional athletes make compelling arguments for that assumption but the truth is no one really knows for sure.He talked about the difficulties they have shaking the stereotypical view of them and how it quite literally puts a choke hold on their sexual prospects—even with women of their own race: The dismal reality you find yourself in is that women don’t want you for anything except the occasional help on a computer or numbers-related problem.
Without knowing it, you are at all times competing with your one billion brothers and cousins to be the World’s Least Fuckable Man.
Sometimes they work for us, other times they work against us.
Within the context of gaming white females it is paramount not to be the stereotypical version of your given race.
When girls see my bike rack on my Jeep Wrangler, it gives them a glimpse of the “All-American” guy they drool over in rom-coms.
Of course my skin tone and tattoos takes me out of the running for husband material (thankfully) but the fact that they see I’m not completely clueless about their world works to my advantage.
You’ve got to stand out from the crowd to get noticed by women.