Written By: Jenne While flirting and dating can be lots of fun…the reality is, nobody – not even Jennifer Lopez – is lucky in love 100% of the time.
The website You And Me Are purports to be an alternative to all those other dating sites in which the goal is to put you-know-what you-know-where without putting a ring on you-know-what. One Natalie Dylan raffled off her first time for greater than million (allegedly).
Though some third-wave feminists (or are we on fourth-wave?
We know from HC’s Ultimate College Girl Survey that a lot of you (actually, 43% of you) are virgins.
You haven’t hit 40-year-old virgin status yet, so stop stressing or thinking you have to lose it to the next guy you meet.
“If it's something that I'm trying to pursue then I would probably change my language and strategy if you will a bit,” says Sean, a senior at Oakland University. “If I really like her then just being able to date her would be enough because if I like her then it’s important to me to support her choices in life,” says Chris*, a sophomore at Florida State University.
When it comes to dating you, guys care more about you as a person than your sexual past, no matter how much action (or lack of action) it involved. I wouldn't decide not to date her because she's a virgin,” says Mike, a senior at Northeastern University.Stop worrying because 80% of the guys we surveyed said they wouldn’t act any differently.“I don’t change my behavior based on a girl’s virginity,” says Luke*, a junior at Penn State University. They say they would change up their approach by not rushing into things too quickly.Do they even want to know this personal information about you? You can stop guessing, because we’ve gotten inside the minds of 15 college guys to learn how they feel about virgins and whether or not they’d be okay with your V-card status. If it’s something more meaningful like the start of a new relationship or a long-term thing, guys consider a girl’s virginity to be a turn-on.“It means she respects her body and the power of sex,” says Matt*, a senior at the University of Michigan.And one of the best places to start is to talk about sex.