Until you are physically comfortable, mentally bonded, and psychologically understand each other, a relationship cannot go a long way.
These things definitely lack in dating online, therefore making it a bad idea. May Get Awkward In Person This is one strange thing about online dating.
One person may get very serious but the other one may only have an infatuation, or perhaps not even that. While in contrast online dating is a very shallow concept. How can we expect a thing as real as love, partnership, relationship, compatibility through it? The lack of emotions and bonding in the actual sense will always be missing when finding a partner online. Insecurity Insecurity is another important aspect of online dating. But for virtual partners it does have a negative indication. When two hearts are ready to be with each other, fight all odds, devote themselves to each other and be together only for each other, then is a relationship a relationship. What is the most important value needed for a relationship?
This very basis of a relationship goes missing online, making it a bad idea altogether.Away from all these factors, if you still are someone who has found a partner online, with whom you share a bond that is pure and faithful, you are lucky beyond limits.Seriousness is terribly rare and unguaranteed in virtual relationships. So, how can one ever be sure that we will find love through online dating? Trust in the true sense takes a considerable amount of time and effort to bloom. But yes, you can’t trust people just after a few all- sweet conversations, and some sugar coated moments. When our childhood friends, our family members betray us, our closest people betray us, who are those whom we meet online?Therefore online dating’s another flaw is the lack of seriousness. Perhaps talking a lot and knowing someone very well is possible through the internet, it may also lead to some genuine feelings, but certainly not everlasting ones. It cannot be found by merely talking for long hours or meeting once or twice or looking at the best pictures of each other. Trust is the most essential requirement of a relationship and it can’t be assured online.This is often therefore an outcome of desperacy that people get into such relationships, but later on they fall short of emotions, divert from each other and eventually break up.
The void in our lives leads us to this path of online dating but after a period of time it only ends up to be a bad experience overall. Lack of Seriousness How serious can we get for someone we don’t know in the real world?But due to this there is a vast difference in what we feel talking to them on the net and what we feel on actually being with them. Be it a boy or a girl, whoever is trying to find a date online will give his/her best shot.In many cases it happens that the comfort and freedom we feel and share with a person virtually is a complete fiasco in person. Ofcourse everyone has their own share of flaws, and no one likes to reveal them. When you date somebody online, there can be a million things they hide from you and you don’t even have a clue of them.A heartbroken person, who finds no mates in the real world is the most likely one to go looking for a date online, in an stranger, according to not one but a number of recent surveys.For most people who will be inclined to date an online partner will be those who fail to find a reliable soulmate in the real world.The space we share with someone through social networking is in great contrast to that we share with people in the physical world. What we see is not enough since many of it can be mere illusions.