For example, a 30-year old can date anyone from 22 to 46, according to the formula.To get 22, you divide 30 in half, leaving you with 15 remaining, and then add seven more to arrive at 22.A question I receive often is, "How did you make the decision to date and marry a younger guy?
But the rule of seven may not actually describe what people consider acceptable.In 2001, a team of Dutch social psychologists, led by Bram P.When we see younger older relationships, such as the late Anna Nicole Smith married to someone who could have been her grandfather, or the older Demi Moore married to the younger Ashton Kutcher, we often think to ourselves "it must be for sex or money." But are those the only things about younger older relationships?Or is there more to it, something that defies logic at a glance, yet works so well for the couple?The rule is widely cited, but its origins are hard to pin down.
In its earlier incarnations, it seemed to be a prescription for an ideal age difference rather than the limit of what’s okay.According to the rule, the age of the younger partner (regardless of gender) should be no less than seven more than half the older partner’s age.Martin, then, shouldn’t date anyone younger than 26 and a half; Lawrence shouldn’t go above 34.(For the sake of this article, we'll define an age difference as five years or more.) Here are four things to consider: 1. Leah says one of her biggest concerns when considering a man 10 years younger was whether he had the maturity to understand her needs and take care of her."I had surpassed him in some areas — I had been in the workforce for 12 years when we met and held leadership positions in church." I had similar concerns when I met Kevin.I fought those affections like crazy." But as an undeniable connection formed, Leah finally made a bold request: "I told the Lord, unless I hear Travis say, 'The Lord has laid it on my heart that you are to be my wife,' I will not move forward." The night before the two gave a group presentation together, they met to pray.