So here we go The first thing that comes to your mind when you are pregnant out of wedlock is, What shall I do? Sometimes you almost need a guide to help you walk through your experience. I want to give you some suggestions on what to do and not to do when you find out you’re pregnant and don’t know what to do.Just remember, they probably don’t believe what they are saying. Hopefully, your parents come along and get behind you. Most are convinced their boyfriend will stand by them no matter what. But most guys who get a girl pregnant out of wedlock still want to play. I only tell you this so you can prepare yourself for the worst.
This may not be a rational position to take in all cases; the children may be in fact far more damaged by staying in proximity to an abusive father than they would be by being raised by a single mother.
However, regardless of the truth of any of these rationalizations, the believe that they are true is more powerful than whether or not they are really true.
Some practicing Catholic people, for example, believe that divorce is a bad thing to be avoided at most all costs.
They may be motivated to put up with a lot of spousal abuse because the alternative is to go against the teachings of their church.
Remember, we usually don’t make good decisions when we act out of fear, confusion, and shock.
Where am I going to get the money to take care of the baby? It seems like a thousand questions need answered. You have several months to figure out what you are going to do with the baby. Ask God to keep you calm and to give you wisdom in what to do next.If you are looking for immediate help please click on an option above. The second question, "Why Do Adults Stay In Abusive Relationships? Partners in abusive relationships have varying reasons for remaining in them.They are the ones outside of you who are most affected by your pregnancy. Plus, not telling them only adds stress to you and he baby.I would sit down with them and tell them how much you love them and thank them for their help over the years. Remind yourself the decisions you will be making affect not only you, but those closest to you and especially the baby. Now it is time to tell those closest to you that you are in fact pregnant or your girlfriend is pregnant.